Life, more often than not, does not go as planned, no matter how prepared we think we may be for the unexpected challenges that lay in our paths. Some challenges are more trying on our hearts than others, but it is in the way we respond to them that really shows us who we are as individuals.
In February of 2009, Initta Andrews began her career with Sodexo at Suffolk University. Fellow coworker Alejandrina Lopez, who Andrews affectionately nicknamed Alex, had planned a trip for the two women to travel to New York City together this June. As life would have it, Andrews passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, April 9th before their trip.
Even with the difficulty in speaking about Andrews, Lopez was determined to pass on the positive memories she shared with her friend, despite having only worked together for one short year.
“We became so close in such a short time, it was unbelievable, it was like little sisters. We joked around, we’d sing at the end of the night as we were closing, we’d put music on and she’d be singing, it was just beautiful. I loved to see her happy like that, to see her in wonderland” said Lopez.
Many of her coworkers will remember her for her years of dedication to her job. “I’ve known her for about two and a half years. She was very devoted to work and keeping the place clean” said fellow Sodexo worker Lars Bower.
Michael Nowak, the chef manager in the 150 Tremont dining hall will remember her for her work ethic. “She was always informative with all the students, she always helped to get our promotions out. She kept the dining room cleaner than any other person. She was always out here running back and forth, always very thorough in everything she did” he said.
For some, Andrews was more than just a coworker. “Initta was like a daughter, like a niece, like a best friend” said Darrell Young, smiling at his memories with her. “She was such a high spirited person. Now I don’t know how high spirited she was outside of work, but when she walked through those doors, it was just uplifting.”
Young had nothing but positive memories to share about Andrews. “The days that I’d work and she’d work, I would just look forward to seeing her, because I knew she was just going to say something that would make my day go better than I planned. She was a wonderful person, and she will be remembered for life. She touched my heart, I must say, she was the most beautiful person.”
Diane Hairston, a fellow coworker who worked side by side with Andrews for several years was especially touched by the shining light that Andrews was.
“She was like my girl, all of us, she was our girl. She always came in and greeted us with a smile, no matter how she felt, she always gave us a smile. She would help anybody out who needed it. I just love her, I miss her, I’m going to miss her for a long time” said Hairston.
Andrews never missed an opportunity to make her coworkers smile. “I miss her hugs. She used to come right up to us and hug us” said Hairston.
Amy Shantzis will miss the sense of community that Andrews created among everyone that worked alongside her. “Initta was very very warm, she was super loving and kind and welcoming. She was always inviting people to go out, and kind of create a really big family environment within the building. It doesn’t matter who you were, she would greet you as if she knew you her entire life.”
Despite the passing of her friend, Lopez has decided to go ahead with the trip the pair had planned. She will travel to New York City, where she will bring a photograph of Andrews with her as a way to honor her dreams and to celebrate the life of her friend.
Nelson Rudolph • Apr 27, 2017 at 1:57 am
This was so sweet and wonderful to read about my cousin. God Bless you Indya and Initta.
Nita Andrews (mom) • Apr 28, 2017 at 11:58 am
Thanks Nelson, love you and text me you number!
Nita Andrews (mom) • Apr 28, 2017 at 12:00 pm
Thanks Nelson, love you and text me you number!
Nita Andrews (mom) • Apr 26, 2017 at 3:30 pm
Thank you, very much for the love you had for my daughter! Yes she was beautiful inside and out! I pray God bears my pain for me!
Letha Jackson • Apr 19, 2017 at 11:42 pm
Wow, I am in disbelief. She was such a sweet soul, we all used to hang out together on Wabon street in Roxbury. Myself, Robin. Lagistla and Raqui all grew up together. My condolences and prayers go out to the family.
Ebony Johnson • Apr 19, 2017 at 10:18 am
You will forever be in my heart friend i will miss you so much we will meet again i love you Anitta
Kemya Eskew • Apr 18, 2017 at 9:13 pm
Hi baby
Gonna miss you, and i dont want to believe your gone.. when i look at you, i see my childhood friend. We will never understand why God does what he does because it is beyond our understanding.
Rest easy sweet baby
Joseph Andrews III • Apr 17, 2017 at 11:02 pm
Thank you for writing such a beautiful article. My niece touched so many people.
Lisandra Soto • Apr 17, 2017 at 4:11 pm
I knew her as Raqui. We grew up together me, Lissa, Lissette and Jenny along side her big sister Indya in Roxbury Hills Commons. She was always happy and smiling. She was a sweetheart and I can’t believe she is gone. Heaven has a new angel. RIP Raqui. Love you.
Indya • Apr 17, 2017 at 12:54 pm
Thank you so much for this beautiful article on my sister. My mom and I appreciate it. We’re touched by all the kid words and love shown for Initta.
Ricardo Bryant • Apr 18, 2017 at 8:20 am
My deepest condolences you and your Mom. I hadn’t seen or talked to her in awhile and was so surprised to hear of her passing. I will remember for being so optimistic and trying to find ten good in every situation.
yujeiry deloen • Apr 14, 2017 at 7:10 pm
initta was the best person i ever meet in my life she was the best at everything she was a good friend good daugther and good conworker i love working with initta everytime she walked to those door at 150 she ask me how was my day we should take a tirps and everything iniita was want to go out state iniita im miss you we love u i hope you in a better place and you are stress free love you R.I.P Initta .